I have a problem that just seems to keep coming back to me. It seems that my exes don't want to stay exes. This puzzled me so I asked one of my trusty guy friends why after we broke up the man would then initiate contact with me after the space of one to six months. His analysis of the situation was that it could be one of two things.
The first being the guy really liked me and got scared because of how "real" his feelings were. The second being that he was "stepping over the fence" and already had a girl but wanted to test the waters. The second option truly horrified me! Could I have unwittingly been the "other woman"??